What do I mean, How to find yourself sober? Manipulation was easy on me whilst I was drinking. It was almost too much to fight anything. Not that I enjoy confrontation, that was probably part of my downfall. I didn’t have the mentality or tools to deal with or question anything. Take my husband for example, not that I am husband bashing but this springs to mind as most of the manipulation I realise (now that I find myself sober) was coming from him. He’s a very clever guy, he knows how to word things to make them seem my fault or to make me sound like I am being…